I am very curious to hear your opinions, this is an issue that has always been in my interest. When I get a girlfriend, I need to know how to please her. In my opinion, something fast and obnoxious is fun and gets one's blood pumping, but it's nice to have something soft once in a while, something graceful that almost has a sort of art to it. Of course I have never actually done it so I don't exactly know what I like the best yet. I need some advice from some vetran ladies.