there is one thing in life that has always confused me, and your about to find out why. how come black people are allowed to say the n word but white people are not? i understand that there are still feelings about slavery, but its more than that. i think that if black people do not want white people to say the n word than they should stop saying it themselves. if black people dont want white people so say it because it brings up a time where there was a lot of pain for them, then they should stop saying it themselves. by saying it all the time like you do, you are keeping it alive. so, there are one of two choices that we have here. either A) black people stop using the word if you think its slanders you or B) stfu and stop bitching when white people use the word.