So my boyfriend and i have been sexually active for the past like 2-3 years. At first, we were havin sex like rabbits but after a while it went from like twice a day to like twice a week. my boyfriends always saying "normal people have sex". After working 10 and 12 hour shifts, believe me...the last thing you want is another 30 minutes of strenuous activity when you could be sleeping. I just wanna know from everybody out there...how often do you guys want sex--and how often do you get it.