How does a woman who has no job, lives with her mom, and uses our children as weapon against me get custody of our children over me?  This is not a father's world.  It is such BS i can take care of them on my own without any help from her...she can't even take care of herself.  I don't want her out of their life I just want them to have stability and I don't think that includes her being the primary custodial parent.  I hate the judicial system.