Girls now a days are only about just taking and never giving.  I personally enjoy it when i am the one being pleasured.  Don't get me wrong I love being in control But you have to admit guys there are those days where you just wish your girl would jump up and ride the hie hard one.  But you can't say anything to upset them because then you wont get to have sex.  It is so easy to get that privledge taken away from you unless you got a nympho on your hands and if that is the case i congradulate you.  But honestly no matter what you say guys the girls rule the relationship.  Because honestly they can take all your dreams and fantasies away from you in a couple of seconds.  And if they want to have sex they don't need us any girl be it fat ugly skinny hot whatever can find sex somewhere.  So play it smart be a good boy and you will get a lot more than you will ever expect.