I posted a blog about five weeks ago and got really great relationship advice….so I thought I would post a new dilemma.

So I know I am not the only one with this problem I have talked to a few girlfriends and they seem to have the same struggles. Basically when it comes to the bedroom I feel like the guy in the relationship. Not in any weird way but I feel like I am always the one asking and not getting any. Now before you say well next time he offers say no that will teach him. Ha doesn’t work and I basically just end up punishing myself. I really do love him and I know he loves me we have been together for three years. No I haven’t gained a bunch of weight or anything dumb… (I am actually about 20lbs less then when we first got together.) He does work ten hours a day but I had the same problem when he was off work for awhile. I know for sure he isn’t cheating because we have a very open relationship (aka I know all his passwords he knows mine we both can check each others phones) We both come from relationships where we have been cheated on so I know he wouldn’t do that. Trust me….I am open to any advice….because truthfully there is only so much you can do on your own and once a week just isn’t enough.