Dear Abby,
>
> My husband is a liar and a cheat. He has cheated on me from the
> beginning, and, when I confront him, he denies everything. What's worse,
> everyone knows that he cheats on me. It is so humiliating. Also, since
> he
> lost
> his job six years ago, he hasn't even looked for a new one. All he does
> all day is smoke cigars, cruise around and B.S. with his buddies while I
> have
> to work to pay the bills. Since our daughter went away to college he
> doesn't even pretend to like me and hints that I may be a lesbian. What
> should I do?
>
> Signed: Clueless
>
> Dear Clueless,
> Grow up and dump him. Good grief, woman. You don't need
> him anymore! You're a United States Senator from New York running for
> President of the United States. Act like one!