i know a girl that thinks that a ripped guy will care more about themselves than the women he is going out with or married too

Because ripped guys tend to be full of themselves, and women prefer to be with someone who is sweet and caring. You should be in shape for yourself not women. And if you wish to really get with women (in a relationship) don't expect your body to do you very many favors.

ONE REASON IS BECAUSE SOME RIPPED GUY HAVE EVERYONE LOOKING AT THEM AND HE SPENT TO MAKE TIME ON HIMSELF AND SOME LOVE MAKING A NOT GOOD THEY HAVE NO RHYTHM