At 09:22pm Jan, 18 2008 : I was raised in a very progressive family, where the women wore the pants in the family half the time, and honestly, I seen plenty of times where my dad should have just smacked the shit out of my mom, but never did. My husband and I have reached an agreement, on this. If I've done something to deserve, he will and does spank me as he would our children. He won't do it often though, says I enjoy it too much, lol.