First dates can be awkward. Meeting people is hard. But some people make it extra hard.

Tons of people from variousAskRedditthreads shared their worst first date stories. Some are relatably cringy, and others are completely downright insane. Next time you’re out for drinks with someone you met on Tinder and the conversation just isn’t flowing, don’t get down on yourself. Remember these stories, and be happy that your date isn’t trying to steal your shoes.

Check out these people’s dating horror stories to add a dash of failed romance to your day.