Though the song may go “Here comes the bride,” for a handful of I do’s, the lyrics should seriously be changed to “Here comes the drama.”

Just because couples may shell out tens of thousands of dollars to make their nuptials worthy of a Vogue magazine spread — or at least good enough to win Four Weddings on TLC — sometimes life and a very drunk guest or two manage to get in the way of their perfect day.

“At the reception, a guest looked at my cousin’s wife and said, very loudly, “Who brought the whore?” And no, they didn’t know her,” Redditor u/tnrivergirl recalled on a recent r/AskReddit thread, an instance that while quite shocking, is very far from a lone anomaly.

From dresses destroyed with rogue mud splatters to a reception transforming into a funeral after the groom’s grandma died in the middle of the ceremony, here are 13 weddings that truly opened up the gates of hell.