While to some, women may be viewed as complex creatures that will never be happy no matter what, we’re actually fairly simple. All it takes for us to be happy is being treated with respect, steering clear of weirdos and maybe some coffee wouldn’t hurt either.

But even with this apparent simplicity, some dudes — and women too — still fail to wrap their heads around the fairer gender, a fact that while annoying IRL, can be really funny when viewed from afar.

From Facebook rants to bad takes on patriarchy here are 20 dudes that just don’t get how women work.