Philip Langer proposed to Ashley Jae Chesler, 43, just three months after the two love birds met in a bar in Manhattan. He put a 2.52 karat diamond ring surrounded by 34 rubies and 55 smaller diamonds to persuade her to marry him. Sounds like he may have been thinking with the wrong head...He met her in a bar and three months later slapped a $30K diamond ring on her finger.

Just three months later, Chesler called it all off and refused to give him back the ring. In court papers filed by Langer, he claims because the engagement was called off, Chesler is required to return the ring to him according to state law. According to The New York Post, Chesler has declined to comment..

He just may have dodged a bullet with this one. She probably would have cost much more to divorce...