One of the joys of being a musician is being able to show your work to your friends and family. Sure, it can be pretty annoying *for* those friends and family, but if you’ve managed to make a career out of it, it’s worth at least demonstrating to the people in your life that you actually know what you’re doing.

Turns out, doing that is harder than it looks — especially if the people working your show are dicks.

The band Seether (remember “Fake It”? Yeah, I didn’t either until I Googled it for this) recently experienced this firsthand when one of the band member’s children was kicked off the stage, causing the performer to have a justifiable crashout.

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