Life is nothing without big plans. We all harbor some hope or dream of what wed like to do with our lives.

Some us are certain and some of us are still searching, but wherever youre at, theres a common problem we all face. We have a tendency to seek out and listen to good advice. Dont worry, you didnt read that wrong. I said good advice is a problem. It seems harmless, beneficial even, but theres a very dark side to the good advice you receive and you might not even realize it.

When youre trying to orchestrate a major change in your life, it can get a little scary. Its a very natural reaction to look for advice from people you trust, but you need to be very careful about what you ask for, and even more careful of who you ask for it.

Even the best intentioned advice can totally derail your plans without you even realizing it.