Like her blogs, I will ask a question, and you give your opinions. And like hers there is no right or wrong answer.
If you put a wig on a sleeping man, and prentend that he's a woman, is that gay? After all, you're pretending he's a woman.
Also, if you make your girlfriend put on a strap-on and fuck you in the ass does that make you gay? After all, its a girl doing it.
Disclaimer: I am not gay, nor have these things happened to me.