The title pretty much sums up what this blog is about.  Right now, I am going through some things that are pretty shitty to say the least.  I have been married for 8 years, and I have known for quite a while that things have not been the greatest, but I thought we could work through our problems, so I think I really just stopped working at making my wife feel special...with that said, she stopped trying also.  We are going to counseling starting Monday, but I dont know if it is too late to fix what is broken.  I feel like my world is crumbling around me, and I dont know what to do to fix it, and I think what I am trying to ask is does anyone have advice about what I should do?  I know there is going to be a bunch of stupidass comments about this, hell its ebaumsworld, not exactly a marriage help website, but hell why not ask right?