unlike bluenotes unrealistic perfect woman who was quite obviously flawed in so many obvious ways... Tall but not too tall, slim but not too slim, well endowed but not too well endowed, smart but not snotty about it, able to hold a good conversation or just as much time in silence just as easily, self-proficeint but able to lean on me if i want her to or if she simply feels like it, stands tall but doesnt look down on anyone, hols her chin up and her shoulders back, as good a shot with a gun as with a look, pretty but not beautiful... i could go on for so much longer normally but my ecently failed relationship seems to have rendered my imagination temporarily AWOL... but you get the point dont you?