Mysteries of the opposite sex explained.
Ok lads, here it is. As a happily married man in his 40âs I am going to explain some age old mysteries about the opposite sex for the younger male generation, and perhaps for some older chaps as well. If you are confused about women, I hope this helps.
Like many young men always out trying to get laid, I was plagued by frustration. I always wondered why (most) girls wouldnât just be content to go home with me after a night out of frolicking and drinking, and have some good honest sex then cheerily depart in the morning with no expectations, phone calls or strings attached. After all, we all go out looking for the same thing right? Action from the opposite sex! Why does it need to be complicated? Why canât we just fuck and be done with it?
Well, after many years, drinks, shags and dramas I can offer some
answers that todayâs young men and possibly some of my contemporaries
may be looking for.
The answers, like women, are complex. So get comfy and read on.
Here is the big question we single men have all asked ourselves:
âWhy wonât (most) chicks be happy to just fuck you and walk away peacefully without any dramas?
To begin answering this we must go back to our (grass) roots as a species, back to the days of the good olâ Caveman.
But before I start, I donât intend for this information to be used to
trick or deceive girls into sex with false motives. Be honest with each
other about what you both want. This is to help you improve any areas of
your mating game that may need work and help in getting what you want
from the opposite sex, and hopefully also giving them what they want
from you.
So letâs begin.
Sex was designed as a means for our species to pro-create, re-produce and survive another generation.
Men were programmed to be sexually attracted to women and vice versa.
To motivate members of our/any species to have sex, Mother Nature
designed it to be the most pleasurable act we know therefore ensuring we
wonât get sick of it and find something better to do. She also designed
males and females to be POLAR OPPOSITES in order to provide a magnetic
like attraction to each other, like (you guessed it) magnets!
Now, because men and women are polar opposites, we have different forces
attracting us to each other hence giving each gender a different need.
I want you to remember this word: âPolarityâ. It is the key. Without polarity, men and women donât get along very well.
We all know that in the reproduction process of most species, females must invest the majority of their time in gestating and nurturing the offspring. That means that males with their small investment time-wise in the reproductive act are left relatively free to keep fucking and fertilizing more females. This is natureâs way of making sure that there will always be fucking/always be reproduction.
That is why Men are hardwired to want to fuck as many women as they can and
Women are hardwired to be choosey about who gets to give them the pole of pleasure.
The male can get the job done in a few minutes, blow his load and be
on his way thinking about his next conquest. Should he be fortunate
enough he could shag another girl on his way home, then another, and
repeat this process for the rest of his life.
For the female he has just worked over and pumped full of sperm, there is a chance that she will become pregnant.
If pregnant the femaleâs investment in her 15 minute quickie suddenly
goes from the few minutes it took her horny caveman to get his rocks
off and fill her vagina full of cock snot to 9 months of pregnancy and
about 16 years of raising a kid until itâs old enough to look after
itself.
In short a woman has to invest a lot more in the reproductive process
than a man, therefore she will think harder about whose penis she lets
inside of her and she will also want him to stick around to help raise
the little rug rats.
Of course pregnancy can be avoided in this modern age of contraception however the fairer sex are still hard wired by Mother Nature to be choosey about who delivers them the high hard one given the huge investment they may have ahead of them.
Consider the following:
Line up ten women in front of a dude and heâll happily shag every one of
them starting with the best looking one and working his way through to
number ten as quickly as he can. Her name, profession and personality
are trivial details that donât need to be considered. Tits, ass and face
are the primary things that motivate him to complete his little fuck
fest. This is the way we men are designed. Our initial attraction is
based on what we see. This âprogramâ has been installed in us to ensure
we donât stop wanting to fuck practically everything that moves in order
to ensure the survival of our species.
Now, letâs line up 10 men in front of a female and see what happens.
She wonât rub uglies with the best looking candidate in the blind haste
that a dude would. She will want to talk with them and in doing so will
be judging each sperm factory on their intelligence, sense of humor (an
intelligence indicator) wealth, state of mind, status, resourcefulness,
personality compatibility, attitude toward her and others, among many
other things with physical appearance being thrown in somewhere along
the line as a bonus.
Whoever ticks the most of these boxes will be the one who turns her on
sexually and gets a piece of her ass. It is a much more complex process
for the lady.
She does this to determine who is most likely to father an intelligent
and healthy child, and who is most likely to stick around to help raise
the scallywag and pay for all the food and shelter.
Of course she wonât be consciously working through a checklist of the
above items, but her senses will be stimulated by certain signals given
off by the lads, which her internal program will process to attract her
to the best candidate and turn her on sexually.
Out of the 10 candidates, itâs possible the ugliest one will best fit
the bill, hence he will be the one who eventually gets to play Hide the
Sausage with her.
Of course whilst your average chick thatâs out getting sloshed and scoping for a gang bang at 2am on a Thursday night may not be looking for a 16 year commitment, she is still programmed by nature to be choosey about the above attributes.
For a young man who just wants a root this can be frustrating, but it must be this way because if men were as choosey as women there wouldnât be enough fucking in the world to maintain our species, and if females fucked at every opportunity like males do they would all be pregnant the whole time and we would become extinct due to overpopulation and drained resources. Itâs the balance of nature.
Sure there are girls out there who just want to fuck cute guys, the same as there are guys who will only bone a girl once they âget to know her firstâ. Both of these are exceptions to the general rule. We are here today to discuss the general rules, not the exceptions.
So now weâve reviewed the status-quo of how fornication works, let me try and help with getting you some success with the ladies. Once again itâs a complex matter so grab a dink, have a stretch, jerk off if itâs that time again, and settle in for another lesson.
Next I will do my best to cover several topics, including:
-How to attract a babe.
-How being too âniceâ will fuck you up.
-Why women have sex with fuckwits
-Why the whole system works backwards.
I was raised by my Mother and Father with two sisters and was taught to respect women, treat them like ladies and be polite. And this is certainly how it should be.
This is where we will get into some paradoxes though.
Whilst itâs true that you should treat ladies like ladies, itâs also
true that being nice, polite and gentlemanly all the time probably wonât
get you much pussy unless you are loaded or look like a movie star. Yet
any girl will tell you she wants a nice guy that treats her like a
lady. Confusing isnât it?
So think about the following two scenarios.
Scenario 1:
As a guy we dream about getting with a hot looking girl who will suck
our cock like a hoover, fuck like a porn star and swallow our cum while
letting a little bit of it dribble out of her mouth and run down onto
her tits while she looks up at us with innocent puppy dog eyes.
However, if after a couple of minutes of chat a girl starts telling you
she wants to do all of this right away you probably wouldnât want too
much more to do with her (after youâd fucked her a few times of course).
This is because the âpolarityâ is gone. Itâs the guyâs job to be a
drooling sex maniac, not the girlâs. If she were to be like this she
cheapens herself thus being of less value to the male, hence being less
desirable.
Scenario 2:
You meet your dream girl, treat her like a Princess, be polite so as not
to offend her, shower her with compliments, give her flowers and open
doors for her with the hope that soon youâll have her bent over the
couch yodeling to the beat of your ball sack smashing into her shaved
pussy, but then she goes and spreads her legs for some fuckwit! (Weâll
discuss fuckwits later).
Confused? So was I for a long time.
So after looking at these two extreme examples we can deduce the following.
1: A high value/desirable female would be one who is feminine and ladylike on the outside but fucks and sucks your cock like thereâs no tomorrow once youâve won her over. Much more desirable than the girl who offers her ass to every second guy she meets.
2: A high value/desirable male would be one who is confident, sure of himself, isnât intimidated by a beautiful woman, not scared to teases her (in a friendly way), gives her no special favors and at the same time leaves her with no doubt that he would like to fuck her so hard that her eyes would pop out but once she has let him in he is still able to express his feelings to her, buys her flowers, treats her like a princess etc (whilst still fucking her hard of course).
So basically this is what works:
Desirable Female = Nice girl on outside/naughty sex kitten on inside.
Desirable Male = Confident self assured sex machine on outside/gentleman on inside.
Polarity. It works.
Just to refresh, this is what doesnât work:
Undesirable Female = Dirty whore on the outside/nice and ladylike inside.
Undesirable Male = Sensitive gentleman pussy on the outside/aspiring porn star on the inside.
See, this just isnât attractive. Itâs simple when you break it down isnât it?
Donât get me wrong though, ladies like to have doors opened for them and be given flowers. But itâs not what will attract them right away.
You see, pretty girls have been fawned over and told theyâre
beautiful their whole life since the time they were toddlers. Nothing
wrong with that but if and when you meet that pretty woman and you
immediately begin to fawn and fuss over her like she is a princess, be
overly polite and show excessive interest in her she will most likely
find it boring because you will just be doing (instinctively) exactly
the same thing as every other male she has ever met in her life.
The guy who is unfazed by her beauty and communicates to her an attitude
of self confidence and not really needing her affections will be the
rare guy that she notices. Sheâll probably be thinking something along
the lines of âWhy isnât this guy fussing over me like the others usually
all do? He must be able to get hotter women than me. I must get to know
him, he must be specialâ¦â Well maybe not in those exact words but you
get the idea right?
Women know that we want to have sex with them. They donât have to
look for subtle signs that we want to bury the bone between their butt
cheeks. Women donât need to get permission for sex (generally) but men
do. Women are the ones who give permission. Men are the ones who seek
permission.
Just because you are a sweet sensitive guy with a heart of gold doesnât
mean that the object of your desire is going to get turned on by that
let you pound her ass till her eyes roll back. If men being all nicey
nice to beautiful women was what turned them on they would be wanting
sex with 95% of males that they meet. They donât.
But donât think for a second that women donât want sex. They do!
In my opinion I think women actually enjoy a good bonking more than men do. They just donât hand it out as freely as we do.
A woman is looking for the Exceptional Male (EM).
The EM possesses masculine qualities.
He is confident, intelligent, funny, resourceful, independent and
strong. He knows what he wants and where heâs headed. He can lead other
men, treats people well and gets what he needs. He is pleasant and
respectful but slightly aloof. These are masculine qualities.
The EM doesnât need to fuss and fawn over attractive women because the
above qualities that he possesses attract women to him. He can have his
pick of the crop and probably doesnât have to worry too much about when
he will next put sour cream in the taco.
This gives him an air of confidence that is apparent and attractive to
women. When he meets a beautiful girl he has no reason to be
artificially nice and polite to her. He is able to speak to her in a
confident and mature way with no ulterior motive as he is already
successful with women and doesnât fear rejection.
The woman he is speaking to will sense this, (his aura if you like)
and in doing so will now want to find out more about him because if he
doesnât seem to need her it must mean that he can do better, which must
mean he has something special, which of course she will now want a piece
of.
Women have a sixth sense that allows them to detect men who are just
looking for sex. They can see you coming from a mile away and put up
their defenses. That is why attached men have an easier time attracting
other women. An attached man generally doesnât need or want sex from
other women he meets so other women donât mind talking to him because
they know he isnât just trying to bury the one eyed worm, allowing them
to feel comfortable and enjoy the company of a well sexed man and have a
mature conversation with no ulterior motive hence causing them to
develop an attraction.
Knowing that he is actually interested in having an intelligent
conversation with her without the objective of blowing his load all over
her face makes her feel valuable, so she develops an attraction to him.
She senses that he is fucking other women already and doesnât need to
fuck her which makes her want to fuck him. See, another paradox, get
used to these.
Therefore, if you can display this kind of confidence and maturity
when you approach or meet an attractive lady without being intimidated
out of your own natural relaxed state by her beauty she will have the
impression that you are an EM therefore you can be pretty confident
sheâll want to get to know you better, even if you are not rich or a
leader of men.
Now, even if youâre not that bright, good looking or rich, you are still
able to possess or even develop the traits of the EM. That is the
beauty of being a man.
The main thing is self confidence. I donât mean over-confidence or
cockiness, but just being comfortable and happy with who you are and
having direction in life.
I could write a whole chapter on this but to be honest I canât be fucked
right now, so just study the prior paragraph about The Exceptional
Male.
Know that you donât need to possess ALL of those qualities, but be
aware of the confidence you would have if you did. Now just develop that
confidence, or at least the ability to portray it. Give yourself valid
reasons to have confidence in yourself. Look for the good qualities you
posess and use them to fuel your confidence, or make some up if you have
to. Feel good about yourself and youâll get to feel some good women.
By conditioning yourself to believe in who you are and that you are good
and that you would be a good catch for a woman, you can develop your
confidence. That confidence will transmit the message to women that you
are an Exceptional Male. You just have to be relaxed and comfortable in
your own skin, thatâs all! Of course donât forget humor and likeability.
Thatâs why there are so many wankers out there desperately
floundering with their hairstyles, fashion, buying expensive cars and
shit in an effort to attract women because deep down they feel empty and
inferior.
So next time you see Freddy Ferrari crusinâ in his F60 lookinâ atchya
through his $800 sunnies whilst running his fake tanned gold encrusted
fingers through his freshly tipped hair implants, donât be jealous. He
doesnât have all that money and crap because he has something special;
itâs because of what he LACKS that he has all that shit. Donât be
fooled. He has probably gone to incredible lengths via psychopathic
obsession to accumulate these add-on accessories in order compensate for
his internal masculine shortcomings.
Mind you there are chicks that will go for that crap but theyâre not the
ones you want to be introducing to your family. And itâs probably true
(sadly) that Freddy is banging some prize ass, but donât think you have
to turn into a douche bag like him or have that kind of money to get
with the girls. And donât think any of them are happier than you.
Be aware, if you use wealth to attract a woman you are increasing your
chances of meeting a woman who will want to take it away from you.
Thatâs why Freddy Ferrari will end up in continuous cycle of getting
with cheap ass materialistic women with no soul and nothing in their
hearts other than the pretentious love of money and image. If this is
what you want from a girl then fine, but donât come back here posting
about how women are materialistic and donât care about anything except
taking your money. You reap what you sow. Offer up something money canât
buy.
Now, Iâm not writing a fucking novel here, so Iâm going to give some brief tips on how to behave around the ladies.
Oh and while I think of it, to the young dudes out there: PULL YOUR
FUCKING PANTS UP! Itâs not attractive, itâs not masculine and you look
like fucking idiots. What makes you think girls want to see you baggy
ass jocks and boxers hanging out?? Seriously what the fuck??!? Donât you
know that was a trend started in prisons so that inmates who were
willing to take it up the ass could communicate the fact to other
prisoners??? What the fuck is wrong with you??!!!
Actually let me divert a little and talk briefly about wardrobe.
Everyone has their own taste in clothes which is fine, but I find the
most important thing is choosing clothes that fit you well and show off
your masculinity.
Low jeans with your ass hanging out, t-shirts that hang down to your
knees, sideways baseball caps and low cut cleavage t-shirts (what is the
fucking go with them??) arenât the things of female fantasy.
Good fitting jeans/trousers (covering your hairy male ass), shirts that
emphasize your upper body ie shoulders/chest/arms and non-stupid looking
shoes are a good foundation.
Be tasteful with your colors and fabrics and donât wear Ed Hardy
anything. Be neat and tidy and well groomed. Show that you donât care
too much about the way you present yourself but donât make a career out
of it. Donât overdo it.
Women are the beautiful extravagant birds of paradise, not men.
Remember Polarity. Women spend hours on their appearance, so, men should not.
Itâs a womanâs prerogative to make her appearance her top priority as
thatâs how she attracts men. If a man appears to have his appearance as
his priority he is showing feminine traits and must be missing some
attracting qualities of the male kind.
Look good of course, but keep it simple. If you spend more than 15
seconds doing your hair you need to re-assess. And pull your fucking
pants up.
Anyway back on track. Here are some quick tips when meeting girls.
-If you approach her in a bar or club, do so with confidence. Get her
laughing for a while, then get the fuck away from her. Sheâll probably
spend the rest of the night chasing you down because you did something
different; ie approached with confidence, made her laugh which releases
the hormone Oxytocin (gives pleasure), and then left like you didnât
need her and probably have a better way to spend your time. Of course
she will want some of that.
-Donât smile too much. Smiling and giggling is for girls, not men.
-Listen to what she is saying.
-Look her in the eye when you speak, and speak clearly, directly and with purpose. Donât stare at her mouth or tits.
-Donât talk about yourself too much. Yes she does want to find out about
you but donât give it all away. You can casually throw in something
intriguing and awesome about yourself but then drop it. Sheâll want
more. Direct the conversation to focus on her.
-Always be the first to end the conversation. When itâs really peaking,
get the fuck outa there. You will leave her wanting more. If you wait
till the conversation is finished then so will your chances be. Always
save a bit for later.
-Use her name. Make sure she knows you know it.
-If you are in good form and itâs going well, get her phone number. Get her phone number. Get her phone number.
-Give her a compliment, just one. Chicks spend a huge amount of time,
energy and money on making themselves look good so of course they will
love a bit of appreciation.. The hair, the clothes, the makeup, the
shoes (omg the shoes) and so on. It must piss them off when no-one
notices. Give her a genuine compliment thatâs original and she probably
wonât hear from anyone else. I donât mean tell her how great her tits
look in that top or how her ass makes you drool. Compliment her on
something that she has made an effort with such as her dress, or shoes
etc. But donât harp on it, which becomes groveling. Remember that youâre
busy doing your own thing and are having a great time without her
anyway.
-Touch her elbow. No I didnât say ass, I said elbow. The elbow is the
only âsafeâ place you can touch a stranger without offending them. This
is a good way to initiate physical contact. She will be less hesitant to
touch you after youâve done this. Of course pick the right moment in
the conversation.
-Donât play games. Remember you are a Man. Real men go after what they
want. They donât care about being rejected; I mean why the fuck would
someone reject you? Youâre awesome!
-Ask her out. Actually donât ask her. Tell her. Tell her youâll take her
out. Do not say âHey, I was just wondering if youâd like to go and have
a soy latte with me after my yoga class??â
Be a bit more confident. âHey thereâs such and such on tonight, you
should come along with me.â Or something like that. Thatâs much more
casual and easier than asking a question and waiting for her to shoot
you down in flames. Women like to be directed by a man (within reason).
It shows confidence and leadership, and they like that. By structuring
the invitation that way you are showing your manliness. Remember, girls
like a guy with direction. You told her she should go with you so she
probably will, provided you havenât come across like a fuckwit leading
up to it.
Speaking of Fuckwits, letâs discuss them.
Weâve all seen it; beautiful women with idiot guys. How does that happen? She should be with a nice guy like you right?
So, why do women have sex with fuckwits?
Your average fuckwit has no regard for anyone or anything. They have
no manners, no respect and are usually too stupid to feel embarrassment
or speak tactfully.
Now if you remember some of what we discussed earlier, attractive women
have been fawned over their whole life. Practically every man they
encounter grovels to them with the hope of giving her a poke in the
whiskers with the pork sword. However, many beautiful women actually
have self esteem issues because their beauty turns normal men into
blithering fools who arenât able to approach her with confidence and
demonstrate their manliness, making her feel like there is something
wrong with her which leaves her yearning for some masculine interaction.
So, along comes a fuckwit. Because the fuckwit has no idea of manners or
courtesy he approaches her with a no holds barred approach saying
things that most of us would never say to anyone, showing a low level of
respect and basically putting no value on the lady other than wanting
to get into her panties.
Now as disrespectful as this approach may seem, the girl is entertained
by the fuckwit because he is the only male that has approached her
showing a forthright interest in buttering her muffin and not being a
pussy about it.
He probably made her laugh with his brash confidence and his warped
sense of humor and told her that she should come to such and such event
with him, which due to boredom she did.
Eventually heâll entice her to a bed somewhere and give her the boning
that she has longed for. He isnât hesitant to make this happen because
he lacks the manners and respect that a normal person would have for her
and has no intention of becoming emotionally attached to her hence he
doesnât fear rejection, leaving him to operate freely with a take it or
leave it attitude toward her.
His take it or leave it attitude pushes the same buttons on the girl as
the Exceptional Maleâs attitude does. That is why women have sex with
fuckwits, because fuckwits initially exhibit many of the Exceptional
Male signals that women are attracted to. Unfortunately though, they are
fuckwits.
The sad part is that down the road the Exceptional male will probably
come forth with the other things that women desire such as flowers,
commitment, stability, money and love, whilst the fuckwit will always be
a fuckwit leaving the girl asking herself why she got involved. So she
sacks him and ends up with another fuckwit.
You see women find fuckwits fun at the start but then want them to
change into loving caring stable men as the relationship continues but
they donât, leaving the women disappointed.
So now you know why women get with fuckwits.
I will now tell you why Nice Guys donât get anywhere with chicks.
Once again it can be confusing because we know that women want to be
treated like a lady, and we donât want to be a fuckwit, but being a nice
guy and treating all women like ladies all the time doesnât get you
far. Why??
Remember the Exceptional Male. He is confident and sure of himself
and doesnât care whether people like him or not. These are attractive
masculine traits to a female.
The Nice Guy however does lots of things in order to have people âlikeâ
him. Heâs thoughtful, polite, remembers everything about you, opens
doors for girls, buys flowers on the first date, listens to problems,
great to talk to etc etc.
This may sound cruel but the Nice Guy does all this because he has a low self esteem.
He wants to be liked. Because he has low self esteem he cannot exhibit
the traits of the EM. He doesnât have the money and accessories of
Freddy Ferrari either, so he has adopted the approach âTo be likedâ
because we like nice people right? Of course we do.
But as you can imagine the EM doesnât need to accessorize or try hard to
be liked because he is already desirable thanks to his masculine
traits.
Women donât go for Nice Guys because the signals that Nice Guys send out
indicate they have low self esteem and are a little desperate for
acceptance. Not much of a turn on.
Donât get me wrong, I really like nice people, guys and girls, but in
the mating game those âniceâ qualities do not work in attracting a mate
if they are at the forefront of your arsenal. They are not sexy
qualities.
The EM can still be (and should be) a nice person but it will not be his
niceness that initially attracts the babes. The niceness can be shown
later.
Women want a little bit of bad boy mixed up with niceness. Now look at the 2 scenarios below:
1. Bad boy at the beginning, revealing niceness down the road.
2. Nice guy at the beginning, revealing badness down the road.
Itâs obvious that scenario 1 is the more attractive one. Get it?
So if youâre a Nice Guy and are having trouble finding a girl to slap
bellies with, I hope this has helped. Hang on to your niceness but keep
it back a level or two. Work on the EM qualities and put them at the
front of your presentation. Be a little aloof and mysterious.
It all works backwards.
We are naturally inclined to do everything nicely and politely when
dealing with the woman of our dreams. It is practically impossible to be
relaxed and indifferent toward her but Mother Nature has made it that
way so that only the strong survive. If winning over a dream girl was as
easy as being nice to her then the whole system would break down. The
same as if women were as flippant with their sexual output as men are.
Doesnât work.
Itâs natureâs way of ensuring the Exceptional Males get with the Exceptional Females.
Iâm not suggesting for a second that people should stop being nice
(there is a shortage of niceness) but just be aware of what is required
to attract the poontang.
Just remember this; Nice guys donât finish last, boring guys finish last.
A female colleague once said to me, âThere is nothing more attractive
in someone than when they have a passion that they pursue
relentlesslyâ. I think this is true.
Think of someone you know that is carving their own path in life with
passion, and notice the people that gravitate toward them. Compare them
to the people that donât have a passion to pursue, or spend their life
trying to be popular or accepted by others. Others tend not to gravitate
toward these people so much.
You donât have to do anything to be liked, just find your passion in life and go for it! Get your shit together. Donât worry what people think about you. The chicks will come.
So, now youâve mastered your game and have a smoking hot goddess in your bedroom, please, please fuck her properly.
This is not the time to âmake loveâ no matter how much you think you are
in love with her. âMaking loveâ is a socially polite term that some
movie writer probably thought up and just because first time sex in
movies is always portrayed as being romantic and gentle and sensual
doesnât mean (like most things in films) thatâs how it is or should be
in real life. If you try to âmake loveâ to a new girl you will probably
creep her out.
This girl wants to be fucked, and fucked well. Sheâs taken the time to
select a suitable man for the job and probably has plenty of pent up
sexual frustration that she needs pounded out of her. It is you giving
her a magnificent slamming that is going to do the job for her.
Iâm not going to go in to foreplay or any of that stuff (Iâm sure you
can figure that out) other than to say you should give her pussy a good
French kissing, but at the end of the day she just wants a good solid
slamming from a good solid cock and you have been selected to give it to
her. Donât disappoint.
Women are delicate and soft but that doesnât mean you should handle her
in bed like a fragile tropical butterfly. Remember that women like
masculinity, so that means you need to bring out a bit of the olâ
caveman. By that I donât mean club her over the head, but be forthright
and handle her firmly. Donât spend all night caressing her with the back
of your hand. Sure do it a little bit, but you should grab her tightly,
give her a stern rogering, spank her and pull her hair a bit. Some
friends of mine were hesitant with the spanking and hair pulling as they
thought their girls would freak out, but when they finally gave it a go
they were pleasantly surprised and so were their partners.
Now donât pull her hair so hard that it rips out of her scalp or makes
her cry (that is assault) but just enough so she feels it. Grab a
handful of it, say while youâre fucking her doggy style and pull back
with some pressure and she will let you know how far you can go with it.
I have never met a girl who doesnât like a spanking and having her hair
pulled. It might hurt a bit but thatâs the whole idea!
From a womanâs point of view it satisfies that primal feeling of being
overpowered and fucked hard by a dominant alpha male cave man, and she
is turned on by the fact that she arouses such sexual excitement and
aggression in her man.
Just to be clear, I am not encouraging any violence here. Donât get
carried away and slap her tits or torture her nipples like you may have
seen on your favorite porn site. That stuff should be discussed and
consensual.
Iâm just trying to point out that as a man you are generally expected by
women to be a bit aggressive in the bedroom and that they enjoy being
man handled and devoured. The harder you fuck her, the more gratifying
it is for her knowing that sheâs driving you crazy. Make her feel like a
woman, donât pussyfoot around and donât make love to a new girl. Show
her the animal. If you give her a thorough session on the baloney pony
for a couple of hours and leave her laying in an exhausted heap she will
be delighted and may want to come back for more.
Well, I think Iâve covered most things here and I hope you found it informative.
As with every complex issue I donât expect this little blurb to satisfy
everyone, but just trying to cover some basic principles of chasing tail
and how it all works. I hope you found something helpful here.
Peace.
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