The actress from the HBO series Girls is a modern-day “Dear Abby” throwing out gems like the key to getting sexy again after becoming a mom is getting divorced. Kirke held a (lengthy) AMA session on her Instagram story and the results were incredibly wild and specific. “Send a letter by post to yourself (or to them if you live together) pretending to be a spiteful ex of theirs,” she responds to someone asking how to let someone know their trash in bed. “Write about how awful they were as a boyfriend/girlfriend (if you have any details to make it realistic use em) and then mention that they were a horrible lay. Be specific. Signed anonymous.” It’s all reminiscent of the advice stars would write on their headshots when signing autographs. But more helpful to me and my love life.